What is Clergy Sexual Abuse?

 Sexual misconduct is a complex issue. It is a betrayal of relationship of trust. It is a violation of the role of pastor/counselor who is called upon to exercise integrity, sensitivity and care. In the early stages, "the grooming period," of sexual misconduct, the behavior causes the victim to feel uncomfortable and confused. As it progresses and intensifies, the victim begins to feel guilty and responsible for what is happening.

Abuse sexualized behaviors include verbal sex talk and innuendoes, hugs, kisses, touching, intercourse, and sometimes ritual abuse. These are accompanied by threats or pacts to "keep the secret."

Anyone in a vulnerable position can be exploited - children or adults. Professional caretakers have an ethical responsibility to uphold integrity. Pastor professionals also have moral and sacred responsibility to oversee the safety of their congregants.



Where an imbalance of power exists, there can be no authentic consensual relationship. When a pastor acts out a sexual relationship with a congregant, it is abuse. It is not an affair!

We are here to listen with compassion and understanding to what you are going through, and empathize with how you are feeling.